Recently, several posts have implied setting examples for children. I got the following a few months ago and thought it would be appropriate for posting at this time.
I guarantee you will remember the tale of the Wooden Bowl tomorrow, a week from now, a month from now, a year from now .
A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and four-year old grandson. The old man’s hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred and his step faltered. The family ate together at the table. But the elderly grandfather’s shaky hands and failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon and onto the floor. When he grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth. The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess. " We must do something about Grandfather" said the son. “I’ve had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor.” So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner.
There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner. Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl. When the family glanced in Grandfather’s direction, sometimes he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone. Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he had dropped a fork or spilled his food. The four-year old watched it all in silence. One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor. He asked the child curiously, “What are you making?” Sweetly, the boy responded, “Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mamma to eat your food in when I grow up” The four-year old smiled and went back to work. The words so struck the parents that they were speechless. Then tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done.That evening, the husband took Grandfather’s
hand and gently led him back to the family table. For the remainder of his days, he ate every meal with the family. And, for some reason, neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, when milk was spilled, or when the tablecloth was soiled.
Positive note, I’ve learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance. I’ve learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision. I’ve learned that every day, you should reach out and touch someone. People love that human touch- holding hands, a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back. I’ve learned that no matter what happens or how bad it seems today, life goes on, and it will be better tomorrow. I’ve learned that, regardless of your relationship with your parents, you will miss them when they are gone from your life. I’ve learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he / she handles three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and a late friend. I’ve learned that making a living is not the same thing as making a life. I’ve learned that if you pursue happiness, it will elude you. But, if you focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others, your work and doing the very best you can, happiness will find you. I’ve learned that you shouldn’t go through life with a catcher’s mitt in both hands. You need to be able to throw something back. I’ve learned that I still have a lot to learn.
I’ve learned that you should pass this on to everyone you care about. I just did…
Mark
[This message has been edited by Marco (edited 30 August 2005).]
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