Memorial Day.....

…is not just for cook outs and parties. Memorial Day is a special day that we set aside to remember all of those who have given their lives in defense of our liberties. To me this includes our allied friends as well. By all means please enjoy the parties and picnics but while you do please take the time to honor the men and women that have so nobly sacrificed their lives for you to be able to do such wonderful things.

I will enjoy our parade and the ceremonies that honor our fallen comrades. I will remember their families too. I will thank any members of our armed forces that I see for their service. I do here and now thank all of my fellow veterans for their service, their steadfast dedication to the fight against evil and oppression and for their love of their brothers and sisters in arms. I will also enjoy picnics, fishing and cook outs but I will always be thinking of those that made the ultimate sacrifice for us.

Four score and seven years ago our fathers brought forth on this continent, a new nation, conceived in Liberty, and dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal.
Now we are engaged in a great civil war, testing whether that nation, or any nation so conceived and so dedicated, can long endure. We are met on a great battle-field of that war. We have come to dedicate a portion of that field, as a final resting place for those who here gave their lives that that nation might live. It is altogether fitting and proper that we should do this.
[b]But, in a larger sense, we can not dedicate – we can not consecrate – we can not hallow – this ground. The brave men, living and dead, who struggled here, have consecrated it, far above our poor power to add or detract. The world will little note, nor long remember what we say here, but it can never forget what they did here. It is for us the living, rather, to be dedicated here to the unfinished work which they who fought here have thus far so nobly advanced. It is rather for us to be here dedicated to the great task remaining before us – that from these honored dead we take increased devotion to that cause for which they gave the last full measure of devotion – that we here highly resolve that these dead shall not have died in vain – that this nation, under God, shall have a new birth of freedom – and that government of the people, by the people, for the people, shall not perish from the earth.

Personal remembrances:

Specialist 4th Class Timbe Seats:

My best buddy, My brother. That fateful day still haunts me when I had to stand there and watch you die. I miss your humor, the arm around my shoulders when things were rough and the swift kick in the pants when needed. I wish I could see your mom again. I am forever in her debt. She lost your older brother in Vietnam and you during the “Cold War”. I love you bro!

Major Marie T. Rossi-Cayton:

http://www.quad-a.org/Hall_of_Fame/personnel/rossi-cayton.htm

The best CH-47 Chinook pilot I ever flew with! I remember a night flight through the mountains of southern California to the National Training Center during a Santa Ana wind event. You had a bunch of shaken up Cavalry Troopers on that bird until they looked into that cockpit and saw a newly minted Army Captain steady at the flight controls. Some day we will go flying together again. Wish I had got to know your husband. I cannot thank him enough for his sacrifices for our nation. Thank you, Ma-am! CLEAR AND UNTIED! START ENGINES!

Lieutenant Colonel Michael E. McLaughlin:

http://www.iraqwarheroes.com/mclaughlinm.htm

You were my X.O. (Executive Officer) in Alpha Battery, 1/229th Field Artillery, PA-ARNG, Grove City, Pennsylvania. I knew you as a Butter Bar, then 1st Lieutenant but most of all as L-T (Pronounced El-Tee). I remember you asking me why the troops called you L-T and not by your rank. I remember how proud you were when I explained that they were not being insubordinate but showing you that they held you in the highest regards. You were Their L-T and they would die to save you. It does not surprise me that you gave up your life putting the needs of your troops before your own needs. You refused medical treatment knowing you were most likely mortally wounded and insisted that your men be treated first. I cried like a baby the day I talked to the Sgt. 1st Class that took care of your remains. I thank your wife and daughters for their suffering. The Battery stands ready and awaits your orders, Sir!

Sgt. Brent W. Dunkelberger:

http://legacy.com/WashingtonPost/Soldier/Story.aspx?personid=20374668

I remember my promise to help you learn to fly fish. Today I will be out at Little Buffalo State Park. As I fish I will be thinking of you. I am certain the fish will not mind a few tears mixed into their water as I know those tears will come. Brent, I didn’t know you for very long but yet, as a soldier, we have known each other throughout the ages. One day we will fish the waters of paradise together my brother. I remember our frank discussion about joining the military and you really did understand that some of us don’t come back. I only wish I had half of the raw courage that you had. I cannot thank you and your family enough for your sacrifices.

To all of my brothers and sisters that have made the ultimate sacrifice and to all of their families, thank you! I salute you all!

I want all to feel free to post here. To my fellow vets I am always here for you. If you want to post here about your buddies please do so. I encourage you to do so.
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I will pass this on to as many as I know.
Via printed and internet…

Remarkable!

Steve Molcsan

To all the men and women serving and who have served and to those who paid the ultimate price, I thank you and my family thanks you.

Because of the sacrifices you have made, my family is safe. I don’t have to worry about men coming in the middle of the night and taking me or my son away never to be seen agian. I can worship my God in peace and freedom. I can openly disagree with my government without threat of jail, and every 4 years, we have the opportunity to change our government without a single shot being fired.

All of this is possible because of the sacrifices made by our service men and women.

Thank you.

Jeff

Please, in addition to the wonderful young men and women in the uniform of our Country, remember the young men and women in the uniforms of the Fire Departments and Police Departments around this Country of ours. They, too, put their lives on the line each and every day, to serve and protect.

To all that have served and are still serving this great country of ours, I give my prayers and my thanks.

Rocky

When all other word fail, a simple thank you must suffice. “Thank you Eric”. Thanks to everyone else who serves, and those who have sacrificed for us all.

Nighthawk,
My new found friend, I thank you for this Post you started. Yes we do need to remember our Enlisted Personnel! We all have been touched in some way by a Loved one, Friend, military member, or other who has passed in a Theater of Operation. May I say THANK YOU to all of you I am proud of you and you courage. Thank you for defending our Country and way of life, God Bless You All !
My Thoughts and Prayers are with you all
Dave

Eric;
Thanks for the post.
Some 46 years ago I served with a great bunch of guys in SE Asia. I’ll spend this time wondering about Spec 4 Mike, Spec 4 David, Sgt’s West and Sizemore. Where are they and all the rest today? I hope they are safe and enjoying a family gathering as we all should.
Yes we ate fried rice with scrambled eggs and Spam out in the boonies and loved it!!
Thanks again Eric.

Ditto,
Same here Jack. Seoul, Korea…land of the midnite calm?
Land of the freezing your arse off.
Thanks Eric. I will never forget the period. I could not read your post without emotion welling up and tears rolling down my cheeks. Get’s to me.
American War Veteran and proud of it.
Gemrod

Eric,
Not a whole bunch more could be added to the previous comments/ replies to your great post so I will not try.

Mark

Eric, As Always we can depend on You to Remind Us All what is Important on this “Holiday” and Veterans Day.
Thank You
Each Day is Memorial Day for me, not a day goes by that I Remember each and every one of my Team that I Lost, and I also say a Prayer for the opposing Soldiers and their Families whose Live’s I had to take.
God Bless
Bill

Eric,
Thanks for a great post. There are many I miss that we lost during 'Nam, but none more than Freddie Hemphill. I had extended my tour in VietNam & was on leave when Freddie lost his life. I heard about it when I returned to Pleiku & 4th Infantry. God Bless ya Freddie…I’ll see you again some day.
Bill…Well said about opposing forces. They also left loved ones behind.
Mike

Eric,
Got Your PM… Thank You Sir!
And for anybody that missed the Memorial Day Concert last nite,
You missed Something Special… I Cried like a baby!
To All that Served or are Serving,
THANK YOU!

Thank You Eric. Words cannot properly express the sorrow of losing a comrade. Your post came the closest to doing that than anything I have ever read. I am forever grateful for the men and women who fought and died for what they believed in to keep us safe.

I hope your post will be preserved in the archives of FAOL so it is not lost in the void.

[b]Why Are You Marching, Son? I’d really like to know!
Is it because of Valley Forge, or perhaps the Alamo?
Or, “One if by land–two if by sea,”
A trumpet’s call…the will to be free?

And what of a man who stood straight and tall,
Who wept silent tears when he saw brave men fall?
No matter–no difference–the blue or the gray,
All were his brothers…how often he’d pray.
And what of Antietam–that now peaceful stream
Where the water, blood-red, glittered and gleamed?
Appomattox…Chickamauga…Vicksburg…Bull Run…
Cumberland…Gettysburg…and then Washington.
Why Are You Marching, Son?

[/b] [b]In Flanders Fields, how proud were they
Whose forms beneath the poppies lay.
Men who saw Verdun…
And died at the Marne…Soissons…
And those who tried the fearful foe at Chateau-Thierry,
Who fought and bled…whose hearts grew weary,
But in whose minds one thought kept churning–
That the torch of liberty keep burning.
Why Are You Marching, Son?

[/b] [b]The planes swarmed in, and the rising sun
Glowed fiercely on the evil done
To men whose blood runs through our veins,
Men who died, and whose remains
Life forever locked in waters deep.
Now, is it right that they should sleep
While the warm sea laps at a twisted hull
And see the torch of liberty grow dull?
Anzio…Cassino…and the Po!
St. Mere Eglise…Le Mans…St. Lo!
Gardelegen…Buchenwald…
On and on the roll is called!
And why?..Why Are You Marching, Son?

[/b] [b]Bugles shrilled in the frozen night,
And at first dawn, the awful sight
Of seas of men…row after row,
Left to die on blood-stained snow!
Pusan…Pyongyang…Suwan…Kyongju!
And blood-red ran the swift Yalu!

[/b] [b]In South Vietnam the big guns roared,
And once again we fought a war
To honor a pledge our nation gave
To help that little country save
Her people from the certainty
That she’d be ruled by tyranny.

[/b] No matter where the big guns roar,
Our fighting men, like those before,
Take the torch we all hold dear
And face freedom’s enemies without fear.
Our fathers died from sea to sea,
And blessed the torch of liberty.
Why?..Why Are You Marching, Son?

Written by John Mitchum, spoken by John Wayne on his album “America, Why I Love Her”.

To me those words speak volumes about why we serve.

Very well said and moving
Thank you
Dave