Honor The Fallen: I served with this officer..honor them all

I am ashamed that it took me so long to confirm this. Lieutenant Colonel McLaughlin was a First Lieutenant and my X.O. (Executive Officer) when I served with Battery A, 1/229th Field Artillery, Pa. Army National Guard. Here is his memorial:

http://www.militarycity.com/valor/1456380.html

When I heard that an officer named McLaughlin was killed last January I thought it was my former X.O. Please, keep track of your old units for your own sake, if for nothing else. I guess that until two weeks ago I was in some type of denial. He was an outstanding leader. Everyone called him El-T, (lt), as he had earned our respect. I would have followed him through places where angels fear to tread.

All of our fallen heroes are listed at militarycity.com I will remember and honor all of them.

J.C.
If this post is out of line please remove it for me. Thanks.

Nighthawk,

Please accept my condolences for your and our country’s loss. My heart bleeds every time I hear of a soldiers death. My son-in-law is currently in the last few days of his third tour of combat duty in the Middle East; we are hoping and praying for his safe return later this week or early next week. I pray that God watches over and blesses each and every one of our soldiers, as well as their families. I’m so proud of our Armed Forces members, present and past!!
My sister sent me the following in an e-mail today; all I can say is “Amen!”:

Your alarm goes off, you hit the snooze and sleep for another 10 minutes.
He stays up for days on end.


You take a warm shower to help you wake up.
He goes days or weeks without running water.


You complain of a “headache”, and call in sick.
He gets shot at as others are hit, and keeps moving forward.


You put on your anti war/don’t support the troops shirt, and go meet up
with your friends.
He still fights for your right to wear that shirt.


You make sure you’re cell phone is in your pocket.
He clutches the cross hanging on his chain next to his dog tags.


You talk trash about your “buddies” that aren’t with you.
He knows he may not see some of his buddies again.


You walk down the beach, staring at all the pretty girls.
He walks the streets, searching for insurgents and terrorists.


You complain about how hot it is.
He wears his heavy gear, not daring to take off his helmet to wipe his
brow.


You go out to lunch, and complain because the restaurant got your order
wrong.
He doesn’t get to eat today.


Your maid makes your bed and washes your clothes.
He wears the same things for weeks, but makes sure his weapons are clean.


You go to the mall and get your hair redone.
He doesn’t have time to brush his teeth today.


You’re angry because your class ran 5 minutes over.
He’s told he will be held over an extra 2 months.


You call your girlfriend and set a date for tonight.
He waits for the mail to see if there is a letter from home.


You hug and kiss your girlfriend, like you do everyday.
He holds his letter close and smells his love’s perfume.


You roll your eyes as a baby cries.
He gets a letter with pictures of his new child, and wonders if they’ll
ever meet


You criticize your government, and say that war never solves anything.
He sees the innocent tortured and killed by their own people and
remembers
why he is fighting.


You hear the jokes about the war, and make fun of men like him.
He hears the gunfire, bombs and screams of the wounded.


You see only what the media wants you to see.
He sees the broken bodies lying around him.


You are asked to go to the store by your parents. You don’t.
He does exactly what he is told.


You stay at home and watch TV.
He takes whatever time he is given to call, write home, sleep, and eat.


You crawl into your soft bed, with down pillows, and get comfortable.
He crawls under a tank for shade and a 5 minute nap, only to be woken by
gunfire.


You sit there and judge him, saying the world is probably a worse place
because of men like him.
If only there were more men like him!

Only two defining forces have ever offered to die for you,
Jesus Christ and the American G. I.
One died for your soul, the other for your freedom

Eric;
I’m sorry to hear of the death of your friend and leader. Your post brought back many memories of the men I served with some 43 years ago in SE Asia. I, unfortunatly lost track of them. Now I wonder and worry about thier fate, saddend that I did not do a better job of remembering my brothers in arms.
You’ve brought a tear to my eye but some joy to my heart as I recall the times spent with a fine a lot of men as I’ve ever known!
Thank You

Eric

Your post as well as these kind never could be out of line! EVER!!
I am sorry for the loss of such a fine person as he.

My heart felt thanks to all of you that have and do serve our country.

Steve Molcsan

I always take it a little personal when I read a KIA obituary but then how couldn’t I. He/she died for their country…for us…for me. :cry:
Sorry for your loss Eric

Eric,
I salute his service pray for his loved ones.
Sorry for your loss.
Mike

Thanks for the support and kind thoughts. Gary, that message hits the nail right on the head. The El-T would have loved it.

Guys, this is a site that might be able to get you in touch with your old buddies:

http://benefits.military.com/reg/buddy_ … _bf_gen.kw

The honored dead, who gave their lives, to “Support and Defend the Constitution of the United States of America, against all Enemies, Foreign and Domestic”, should be honored for giving the ultimate sacrifice for Freedom.

How often, do we forget those who also serve in uniform, and have to live with the deeds they witness, and have committed, in the name of Freedom. Only on returning to the “Home of the Free, and Land of the Brave” trying to pick-up their life’s they left behind, their call to duty is disregarded.

It does not matter when they served, or if they served in combat, it only matters that they served.
It does not matter whether they have served two years in uniform or 30 years. Shake their hand, look them straight in the eye, and say “Thank you for your service to the nation!” And say as if you really mean it, from the bottom of your heart!

Steven H. McGarthwaite
Platoon Sergeant, U.S. Army, Retired
1968-1995

Steven,

Most of those who return from serving in our Armed Forces blend right back in to the general population, recognizeable only by their character.

That was true of my oldest son and I hope it comes true for my middle son. But my youngest son left two legs and the vision of one eye behind in Iraq.

It was a terrible result, but it has had some marvelous benefits. One of which is to see the incredible outpouring of respect, appreciation and generosity he has received for his service and his sacrifice.

I wish every veteran could receive the same. I suspect they would if they and their service credentials were more visible.

I flunked the physical and couldn’t serve. I have nothing but deep respect, admiration and honor for all of you who did. I salute you all!

Gee oldfrat I didn’t know. :frowning:
It seems we or at least I tend to forget that so many give so much besides the ultimate sacrifice.

Your post made me think of my family and our service and strangely made me think of my grandfather and how so very easily my world, my life, may not have existed. He was one of almost 300 men from my county that went to France, and one of only 15 to return.
Heck, I don’t know what to say but I did feel I needed to acknowledge your family’s sacrifices in open forum.
I salute your sons…I salute you!

Eric, Just saw your post on you and my condolences to you his family.

All the men and women who served in our country’s armed forces are heros.

We are shock and it is big news, when we read the newspaper headline “3 Soldiers Killed in Iraq”! Being retired U.S. Army, there was a time when 5,000 men would be killed in 15 minutes of battle (Cold Harbor - War Between the States). Revolutionary War, War of 1812, Mexican War, War Between the States, Spanish-American War, World War I {The War to End all Wars), millions of soldiers perished in the trenches, during a 4 year stalemate. In World War II in the Pacific, just taking a small island in the middle of the Pacific, would claim 26,000 Marines, one small island! Korea War, should be called the China War, with Russian Pilots flying the MIG 15’s, long…cold…many causlties…an only an armistice that continues 50 years later, Vietnam, Panama, Granada, Desert Shield/Storm, the Bosnia Mission, Iraq Freedom Campaign, Afghanistan. Now we are facing a Islamic War against the Western Nations, that can easily go global.

Always, our nations citizens have answer the “Call to Arms”, and taken the pledge to serve, most of you know it by heart.

“I (state your name),swear allegiance to the Constitution of the United States of America, to protect and defend the Constitution, against all enemies, foreign and domestic. To obey all lawful orders, by those appoint over me. So help me God!”

All answered the call, all gave some, and some gave all…for a dream, a promise, and a hope for a better tommorow.

Steven H. McGarthwaite
Platoon Sergeant, U.S. Army, Retired
1967 - 1995

NOTE: All retired Military Personnel, have the right to continue to use their rank in civilian life, the same as Judges, Congressmen/women, Senators, Presidents.

Why Are You Marching, Son? I’d really like to know!
Is it because of Valley Forge, or perhaps the Alamo?
Or, “One if by land–two if by sea,”
A trumpet’s call…the will to be free?
And what of a man who stood straight and tall,
Who wept silent tears when he saw brave men fall?
No matter–no difference–the blue or the gray,
All were his brothers…how often he’d pray.
And what of Antietam–that now peaceful stream
Where the water, blood-red, glittered and gleamed?
Appomattox…Chickamauga…Vicksburg…Bull Run…
Cumberland…Gettysburg…and then Washington.
Why Are You Marching, Son?

In Flanders Fields, how proud were they
Whose forms beneath the poppies lay.
Men who saw Verdun…
And died at the Marne…Soissons…
And those who tried the fearful foe at Chateau-Thierry,
Who fought and bled…whose hearts grew weary,
But in whose minds one thought kept churning–
That the torch of liberty keep burning.
Why Are You Marching, Son?

The planes swarmed in, and the rising sun
Glowed fiercely on the evil done
To men whose blood runs through our veins,
Men who died, and whose remains
Life forever locked in waters deep.
Now, is it right that they should sleep
While the warm sea laps at a twisted hull
And see the torch of liberty grow dull?
Anzio…Cassino…and the Po!
St. Mere Eglise…Le Mans…St. Lo!
Gardelegen…Buchenwald…
On and on the roll is called!
And why?..Why Are You Marching, Son?

Bugles shrilled in the frozen night,
And at first dawn, the awful sight
Of seas of men…row after row,
Left to die on blood-stained snow!
Pusan…Pyongyang…Suwan…Kyongju!
And blood-red ran the swift Yalu!

In South Vietnam the big guns roared,
And once again we fought a war
To honor a pledge our nation gave
To help that little country save
Her people from the certainty
That she’d be ruled by tyranny.

No matter where the big guns roar,
Our fighting men, like those before,
Take the torch we all hold dear
And face freedom’s enemies without fear.
Our fathers died from sea to sea,
And blessed the torch of liberty.
Why?..Why Are You Marching, Son?

John Wayne has a cd titled America, Why I love Her. This is a taste of that cd of poetry read by the Duke. I am in the process of providing a copy to a member of this board. Anyone that wants a free copy just shoot me an email at kiowajockey426@yahoo.com

Aside form a long family history of service this one poem speaks volumes about why I served. I really so want to meet you guys and shake your hand. I am very proud to know that you are my brothers in arms. So long as I walk this earth you will always have a buddy by your side.