We've been switching off between my folks and her folks for years, but now it's sometimes at our house as we all grow older. Where ever it is, we generally eat until we are in pain, then lay around until we are only uncomfortable. That is the signal for my mother in law to bring out pecan pie and my wifes famous vanilla pie, which we eat until we are in pain again. Then we lay around until we are only uncomfortable again, which is the signal for my mother in law to bring out the leftovers to make sandwiches.