Jonathan,
Gee, I hope you don't feel I steered you in the wrong direction, or that one experience with one person at one shop made you feel any less inclined to pursue this interest.
Spending $150 on an entry-level rod is more than adequate and will give you numerous options. As you can see, Marriott's catalogs many rods in your price range and should welcome your patronage and provide plenty of service after the sale.
Naturally I am sympathetic toward the saleperson's pending loss of his close friend. That's a truly difficult issue, and it may have contributed to his inability to assist you. I don't argue or question his talent, skill or reputation as an angler either. However, I do think a little regard to basic customer service skills would have left you feeling better. Abandoning a customer for any reason is a CS no-no. You are wise to take this interaction with a grain of salt, and hopefully your next encounter will not result in someone trying "to pass you off to someone..."