We have some openings on the Swap of the Month.
this killed it for me. i may have misunderstood, but joining for a whole year and making flies once a month for a whole group was way beyond my desires as a casual tyer. after a while all i saw was announcements about swaps of the month, so i quit hanging out.

the couple of swaps i did meister went quite well. i didn't take the no-shows personally, and just carried on with what came in, returning extras to the tyers. worked fine.