As adults, parents, and grandparents, one of our primary jobs is to set an example and teach the generations coming behind us, to pass our knowledge on as it was passed to us. Does the Drake exemplify the example you want to be to your kids? I know, it was stated to keep the wife and kids out of there, but doesn't that translate to "Do as I say, not as I do!" ? How well did that work for your parents if you heard that phrase like I did growing up?
I can not justify participation in a site like the Drake considering my role as an example and mentor to my kids and grandkids, not to mention the Scouts I deal with daily.
