Bob,

My wife used to be head of development at a place called David's House on the fringe of the Dartmouth Hitchcock campus (http://www.davids-house.org/). It's kind of like a Ronald McDonald house, kinda. Check with pediatrics at the hospital you are using, if they are one of the larger in the state, and have a well known pedi program, there's a good chance there will be something similar there. David's House was fully funded by donations, and people who stay there are asked to pay what they can... which at the moment maybe nothing, but sometime down the road... they never forget. Good luck, man... you will all grow somehow from this experience.

TL's~