John;
We're of course not "buddies", in the true sense, since we've never met, but I'd be happy to be your "buddy" to reply to this particular post!
Where I fish for Steelhead, (REAL steelhead country), it's not uncommon to hook one in fresh and have them run you BACK into the salt. We worry as much about "how much backing we have", as we do our actual fly lines. I've used a 10' Thomas and Thomas 6wt. lined with a 7wt. for these fish for 27 years and just checking my fishing logs, that comes to 412 landed fish in that time. Ranging in weight from "THAT'S supposed to be a STEELHEAD?", up to 27lbs. and a few ounces.
"Skilled fisherman"? Well, like JC says in his signature....... "No one knows how long, if ever, it takes to learn this sport", (more or less), but I do tend to net my steelies long before most of those I've witnessed when out and about, with much heavier equipment, including my own, fishing friends.
No, I don't play ANY FISH until it's "so tired, it falls into my net", I love our resource too much to do that. In fact, I usually also have a much shorter recovery time for my own landed fish too. (in comparison).
I do not, advocate fishing steelies with a 9' 5 wt. unless your fish run awfully small, or you're just "tag fishing" for them. But, properly played, knowing what you're doing on your end of the rod, a good, stiff backed 6wt. preferably a 9'6 to 10'-6 should be adequate.
One more thing................. there are MORE than enough "EXPERTS" in this fun and lovable sport, in fact, when I counted them up, last time, there were NONE.....so please do not TELL ME what; "We can post and NOT post", as answers to our fellow FAOLers..according to your own, given fishing skill. All of us post our OWN experiences, observations and opinions, just like the next person.
Thank you.
Paul