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    After a few days of mulling over my answer, I feel it is time to address the inaccurate allegations leveled against me. The post was pointed out to me by another member Monday evening while I was in the chat room.To those statements, I give this response:
    A few days after receiving the check from Z, my family & I made the decision to have our phone/cable/internet disconnected for a period. My wife was off work due to her pregnancy & we had lost her income. During this time, I could not send out a few orders I had received, including Z's. With no phone, or internet, I had no way to contact anyone. Starting in early December, I was again able to get the Net back, and informed my customers as to my situation. The week of Dec. 7th, I was able to send out orders again, including z's fly. It didn't arrive. After a few inquiries(after talking to Z) I discovered the fly had been included in another customer's order,minus the shipping label. This was mid-January. The next time I had met Z in the chat room was the next week, and informed him that I would be sending him the fly as soon as I had received it back, I was met with a statement from him(direct quote) "You're full of crapola, my friend". I then tried to ask him in a private chat what would make him happy, a refund, the fly, or both. I received no response from him, but was asked to quit hiding & come out in the main forum, which I did. After that, we were asked by the chat moderator to please "go private" if we had a dispute with each other, which I then tried again, with no response. At this point, another rant was aimed my way & Z left, with no response to either question I posed.That was the last time I had spoken to him. Then , as I stated, I entered the chat earlier this week & was informed of the "Dishonest Member" post.
    Addressing the allegation that I had tied the fly & passed it off as my own: I take pride in my work to the point that I provide a signature card with my flies. My work is MY WORK- just that MINE. If Z thought that I was passing my work off as someone elses, then why was it the SECOND fly he bought from me by the same tier???? Almost two years has passed since he bought the first one, and I had never heard a complaint in that time. If he would like authentication of the flies, I can contact the tier & have him contact Z as to the authenticity of both flies.
    The money from both flies I sold Z was fro a charitable organization I have done work for. With the money already in the hands of the organization, I have refunded Z out of my own pocket, NOT THEIRS. The frame for the first fly was also paid for out of my pocket, NOT THEIRS. The one thing I cannot understand is that if Z thought the fly was fraudulent, why almost two years later, would he buy another fly from the same tier from me??? Doesn't make sense.
    What I am guilty of is sending the fly late. Of all the folks that had late orders, Z was the only one to have a complaint. In the 21 years I have been selling flies, you could count the number of complaints I have had on one hand & still have fingers left over. Was it bad for business?? Of course it was, but my family comes first, and given the choice of angering a few people or feeding my family & putting a roof over their heads?? No question, family wins every time. And, of those whose orders were late, 2 have made additional purchases from me this week.
    So, to those of you who might have been swayed by a shovel full of angry words, make your own minds. I'm not hiding from anyone, and i'm not going anywhere anytime soon. Z, the fly was sent out today. If you don't want it, send it back. I'll gladly add it to my collection. I remain, Jamie Webb(mcmutt)
    Take a Kid Fishing. HECK, take ME Fishing(and my kids,LOL)

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    Jamie,

    I think it's good you posted up your side of the story. I believe you on the authenticity issue.

    But I want to talk about the philosophical issue and priorities thing.

    I understand and appreciate "family first." But...personally...I don't put my family ahead of my integrity. If keeping my word costs me more than I bargained for, that's MY problem. If it hurts my family, that's MY problem. This guy didn't make a deal to feed your family. You did. This is a good example of why people should be very careful to make sure they aren't making promises they can't keep. I assume it was you who helped your wife get pregnant, right? So the medical situation resulting in loss of income was also YOUR responsibility. Sure wasn't Z's.

    I'm not saying this to jump in the middle between you and Z or take sides at all. MY point is one about business and integrity...in general. This situation just provides an excellent example to base that discussion on. When I do business with people, I expect them to take the same view I have of keeping their obligations. I'm usually disappointed. Keeping promises is NOT supposed to be an "unless it hurts me" sort of proposition. That's called not keeping your word. No excuses. When/if it happens, you apologize, make it right, and take your lumps. I don't care if you got ran over by a bus while crossing the street!

    You see, there's nothing wrong with saying to someone you've struck a deal with, "Hey, I'm on the short and having trouble feeding the kiddos. I want to make good on this, but I would really appreciate it if you give me some time." Almost every half-way decent human on Earth would grant that request. But make no mistake - THEY are doing YOU a favor by allowing you to modify the deal. YOU don't have any sort of right to modify the deal without their permission...even when you play the "family first" or "kids first" trump card.

    That's my opinion. And I'm not just stating it for your consideration. I'm tossing it out there for general consumption.

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    Not placing any of the blame at all on Z, just stating my case, SM. And trying to straighten out a few points. Taking my lumps as they come, as I said. Wasn't trying to modify anything, just trying to make things right & wasn't getting a response, except in a BB post accusing me of fraud.
    Take a Kid Fishing. HECK, take ME Fishing(and my kids,LOL)

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    Quote Originally Posted by mcmutt
    Not placing any of the blame at all on Z, just stating my case, SM. And trying to straighten out a few points. Taking my lumps as they come, as I said. Wasn't trying to modify anything, just trying to make things right & wasn't getting a response, except in a BB post accusing me of fraud.
    My entire post was in response to the following:

    "Was it bad for business?? Of course it was, but my family comes first, and given the choice of angering a few people or feeding my family & putting a roof over their heads?? No question, family wins every time."

    The choice was between making good on your word or "feeding (your) family." And by the rationale you used, one could excuse stealing and murder in the name of "taking care of my kids." And I am saying a man of honor:

    1. doesn't put himself in this situation, and if he does he begs for mercy
    2. doesn't hide his shortcomings behind his pregnant wife

    Sorry you misunderstood the more displomatic approach I took the first time.

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    SilverMallard
    Not to take the side of the underdog or even excuse my short comings, it's good to know there's a saint among us.
    nam

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    Quote Originally Posted by namekagon
    SilverMallard
    Not to take the side of the underdog or even excuse my short comings, it's good to know there's a saint among us.
    You don't have to be a saint to be a man of honor and integrity. It is precisely this defeatist attitude and eagerness to compromise these things in our society today that I am concerned about.

    It doesn't take a saint to keep his word. It simply takes good character.

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    Maybe it was an underdog thing after all.
    I can't argue the substance of what you say...just the tough love delivery.
    nam

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    Although SilverMallard said it well, A saint is so much more than just keeping ones word or commitments. That simply takes characted,honesty and integrity without excuses. To honor ones commitments in hardly a saintly act, it's expected.


    Mark

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    Someone once said...

    "I could not love thee Dear so much , loved I not Honor more!"

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    mcmutt,

    I sympathize with hard times and family need. God knows how many of us are a pay check or two away from experiencing the wolf at the door. That being said, I believe it was still the seller's responsibility to maintain contact with his customer and conclude all transactions in a satisfactory fashion. A logical course of action before the plug was pulled would have been to get the snail mail address of everyone who was due flies. Public libraries have free Internet access through which Hotmail and other Email accounts may be reached.

    If you have just disappeared from the face of the earth and can't be contacted by phone, Internet, or mail, you look like a crook regardless of what your home situation was. When the buyer finally found you again, you experience his justifiable frustration, anger and scepticism about your honesty. If you put yourself in the buyer's shoes and consider how this transaction looked to him, you will understand his reaction. It was very bad business that looked deceptive and fraudulent. Sorry, just my two percent of a dollar. 8T

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