Joe,
I'm 58, will be married to my Colleen for 35 yrs on 7/18/05...we have different interests, I know we both dated folks who may have been better looking, we don't fish together, but we TOTALLY trust one another & respect the other's interests & hobbies. Dave Micus addressed the trust/mistrust issue accurately, in my opinion. When the right one comes along, there will be NO doubt, & NO reason to seek a "second opinion". You'll know it!
Take care buddy,
Mike

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