There's this guy in our fishing club that's been married three (3) times! He's been striving for this utopia "togetherness" thing, where he and she have no secrets, tell each other EVERYTHING, and wants to do things together. I've been harping at him for some time now to SHUT UP! And it's strengthens the marriage to have some separate interests to give the other a chance to breathe. But what a dummy ... I think she's already had enough "togetherness". Oh, well.