Jim, Prayer coming from this way also. I too know how your wife's cancer has hit you. My wife has just been diagnosed with breast cancer. It is very hard, but we are (trying) to trust God for his unfailing love and care. Take a look at Proverbs 3:5&6.Is there a support group at your church or in your community? Drop me a PM or if you want I will send you my email address if you would like to chat. Dick xfishcop