I think rubber bagged nets are in a class of their own, for the reasons you mention and more. While there are a variety of good brands, I think the best kept secret out there is the fact that Brodin sells the Ghost net bags alone for you to install on your own frame. They're only about $25 on average and a piece of cake to string onto your existing frame. (I've put two on myself). Great way to get all the benefits of a new rubber-bagged net without spending $100 or more.
http://www.brodin.com/Ghost_Bags.html