The worst thing for a parent is to out live your children. I don't know what I would do if one of my children died or was killed. I don't have a good relationship with them for a number of reasons but, I still love my children whether they know it or not.

My prayers also go out to your life long friend and also to you. I to have a life long friend and I happen to be the God-Father to his daughter and would not want anything to happen to her. All the best to your friend and you

Scott