Again, that's personal preference. The rod felt heavy because odds are, it was heavy. It is bamboo, after all. Given the same rod, I would likely choose the lightest reel I can get away with, my preference is for the least overall weight and tip heavy is pretty meaningless to me personally as grew up having sword "fights" with my brothers and friends and the mock-ups of swords we have used are several pounds heavier than the heaviest fly rod. For me, having a heavy reel below my wrist is somewhat more fatiguing because I'm not as used to it and it forces me to use different muscles.
As Bamboozle stated, it's subjective. If you like it a certain way then by all means, do it that way. But as a question that you can get a definitive answer to from people on the internet, it's a myth. From the standpoint of physics, it makes absolutely no difference whether you have a heavy reel, or even no reel. The rod is capable of throwing the same amount of line regardless of the weight of the reel. If it did make a difference other than indiviudual preference we would certainly have charts to tell us the ideal weight for our rods.
[This message has been edited by Bill Blake (edited 23 March 2006).]