Like many of those who've spoken up before me, I've felt the loss of someone very dear and I've seen the way that others have reacted. After my Fiance passed, I held things that her brother had said to me during that time against him and we drifted. He was a brother to me, and although I know we still love each other, I worry the damage has been done. In this time of stress and grieving, do not hold tight to the words and actions of others. Grieve in your own way, let them grieve in their's and when it all comes back around you'll be at peace once again.

My thoughts are with you.
Take care,

Brad