Bob,

Vent all you need too. In fact, I'd be glad to let you take a couple of swings at me it you thought it would help. I have been so very impressed with your compassion, and what a stalwart and faithful friend you have been to so many people. I can't imagine how hard it is to watch a great friend give up. Not knowing him or the kind of relationship you have with him, or all the particulars of his situation, I wouldn't dare to presume that you have any course of action other than to stand by him, but know that the depth of your love for him truly does make a difference. Standing by him now - whether you voice your concerns to him or not, is the epitomy of a real friend and the very definition of bravery and strength.

You will be in my thoughts and prayers,

Ed