This is also why I no longer participate in swaps, I don't want to be a deadbeat swapper. In my line of work I have no idea when real life is going to jump up and make me miss a deadline, and while I loved the couple of swaps I was in, the time I had to drop out made me feal like such a creep, I vowed to never to do it again. If I can't be dependable, I just don't want to do it.