Like stated previously, you may need to find a new buddy to roll with or go alone!.......... I do find myself planning almost all of the outings that my friends come with me on, but I would rather have it organized and dialed in (when, where, set-up, camping, maps, flies) so everyone can relax, have fun, and hopefully get into some fish. I require my buddies to have their own gear, split booze and gas...I am always upfront about giving a ball park figure on the individual costs before we even leave town. I think my fishing buddies realize that when I take the time to set something up they know they are in for a great time, thus I have never had an issue getting them to pony up the cash. I dont mind providing flies, in fact really enjoy having them catch fish on my home grown ties. Life is definitely to short not to enjoy your outings, and I really have a great time sharing it with friends!