You may not have found it yet, the little list of 'Who is on the bb at this time.' It's down near the bottom and shows who is in at the same time that you are. If you click on any name it brings up their profile,,, and a link to their Private Message box. So, any time you are bored, check over the list, send them a PM, chat that way,,, or meet them in the chat room which is always open.