Dave,
1.5 years ago my wife and I got divorced after 32 years. For the first time in my life, I was alone.
The first 12 months were tough. I loved my wife and I depended on her. I am learning to care for myself and I can't ask anyone WHY I only have ONE sock!
Confidence builds, slowly.
Be honest with people about your marital status. That way you are not hiding anything and it will lead to good relationships.
Being married or divorced is no different, because were STILL living and were still travelling down the path of life.
I am happy that I do think mostly of good memories.
Exercise has been very important to keeping me centered.
Don't worry about yesterday or tomorrow, just take ONE day at a time.
Having your heart broken is very stressful.
Family members were waiting to see if I would FAIL being single. I'm NOT failing because I have a fighter's spirit from my Mother.
It's real cool to sit on the couch in my underwear and watch the football game, without someone being offended.
Hang In There!
Doug P.S. Welcome to the best side of the U.S.!