Like Len, I also have a 14-year old daughter...and she has a boyfriend. My wife and I are driving her CRAZY...which means we must be doing something RIGHT! :)
Any leisure time SHOULD be spent fishing and/or tying, but sometimes there's just "chillin' " to be done. Sit back, relax and enjoy. Maybe have a cigar or pipe and a beverage on the back deck. Walk around and check out the backyard flora & fauna:
http://i28.photobucket.com/albums/c2...lkweedBugC.jpg