lesson in living

A Day in the Stream
Instead of fish, I hooked a lesson in living
ByJENNIFER OLSSON

ALTHOUGH it maintained a humble exterior, the Montana dude ranch1 where I was to meet my latest client was much more than a corral-and bunkhouse affair. A chef with a tall white hat prepared gourmet meals; the massage sign-up sheet was posted on an easel by the front desk; the fax and copy machine were to the left.
I stepped out of my vehicle to meet my client and his wife. He was strong and solidly built. He looked like a model for an outdoor catalogue. The fishing vest was stiff with newness; all of the correct hardware, shiny and untested, hung from his chest, like tools in a toolshed. The felt on his wading boots was as white as snow. A handcrafted net swung on his back. The rod had never gotten wet, much less caught a fish, and the line was shiny from lack of use. The reel was on backward.
Typical beginner, I thought.
I reached out to shake his hand. A firm grip grabbed back.
His wife, an attractive woman brimming with confidence, took a photo of us, then waved good-bye with an arm heavily weighted with turquoise bracelets.
First I turned his reel around. He smiled and shrugged. Then we began his casting lesson on the lawn behind the main lodge.
1 dude ranch: a hotel in a ranch setting where guests can
To my surprise, he was one of those rare people who connect with a fly rod2 almost immediately. It just looked right from the beginning, and he was charmed by the way the line seemed to magically flow above his silhouette on the lawn.
"I could just stand here all day and cast," he said, smiling.
We did not have to travel far to the water, since a perfectly sweet little creek ran along the last six miles of the rutted dirt road I had traveled that morning. The warmth of the sun raised the water temperature enough to awaken the rainbow and cutthroat trout that slumbered, and the caddis flies were dancing their erratic dance, here and there, over the water.
Even in hip waders3 we were overdressed for the ankle-deep creek, but we stepped in, waded out to the middle and faced upstream. My client cast, and I pointed to the place the fly should land.
"Oh, hey! Look at that," he said when the first fish struck. He was truly awed. The second time a trout struck, his shouts of surprise and joy rang up and down the creek, and we happily reeled in a sparkling, eight-inch wild rainbow.
"Isn?t that beautiful?" he said softly, and every trout after that was beautiful, incredible, amazing, fantastic. A little brook trout took the fly, and I held it so my client could see the blue rings around the bright-orange spots.
"That?s the prettiest thing I?ve ever seen," he said with sincerity.
To be with someone who was able to treasure the moment the way he did made me feel like I was exploring fly-fishing for the first time. I showed him how to keep his fly from dragging, how to fish the deeper pools. He was absorbed by the whys and the hows and the execution.
2 fly rod: a long, flexible fishing rod used for casting artificial participate in ranching activities flies or insects
3 hip waders: waterproof hip-high boots worn while fishing
And the fish, whether six inches or ten, were praised like precious stones.
In the late afternoon, about the time the skin begins to feel sore from a fresh sunburn, my client stopped fishing. His shoulders dropped, and he paused to look at the water, the trees and, finally, at me.
"I have to tell you something," he said. "This has been one of the best days of my life. The reason I?m telling you is, I wasn?t supposed to be here right now. I?ve been very sick, and the doctors didn?t think I was going to make it. I wasn?t sure I was going to make it, but I?ve been well since last fall, and everything is fine now. My wife gave me this equipment because I?ve always wanted to fly-fish, and this trip is kind of a celebration for our family. This really has been one of the best days of my life."
I could not speak. I looked into his eyes and nodded. He smiled at me and cast again. We left the creek only after hearing the triangle ringing for dinner in the distance.
His wife, who was waiting on the front porch of their cabin, embraced him and asked how he had done. "Fantastic, absolutely fantastic." His children, a seven-year-old girl and a teenage boy, followed him inside, interrupting each other to tell him what they had done that day. I could see that the dark cloud that had hung over them for so long had passed, and they were finally able to enjoy something as simple as being a family.
Down the dirt road my vehicle bounced over ruts and rocks as I followed the creek that had given us "fantastic," "beautiful," "amazing" trout. The next day there would be a new fisherman to meet. And I would not let stiff, expensive clothes or a backward-mounted reel deceive me into thinking he had nothing to teach me.

I am not formerly award of Ms. Olsson, but she writes a pretty good story. The inside of the book is usually more interesting than the cover.

Sometimes I think we don't know how good we've got it, until it threatens to go away. Human nature I suppose.

Having recently survived a life threatening illness I can only add, every time I tie a fly, cast a line or the rare occasion I catch a fish teaches me this very same lesson over and over. Every day is a gift. Thanks for the reminder Kerry and Jennifer.

Oh my, yes how very true and thank you very much! I met Jennifer and her husband many years ago in Montana, I had not read any of her work before.

Which goes to show, we all should greatly appreciate each and every day for what ever it brings and to spread it around and show it to everyone that we can.
I know I have come to appreciate a lot of things, views, etc. that I used to take for granted. One hundred mile views, the milky way, sunsets and rises just to name a few and I have had the great joy of sharing them with a few people. I will gladly share them with anyone who can get out this way. Jen's story is just icing on the cake for some of her greatest moments. She shares a great story for us to appreciate. Thank you for sharing it with us.